Something To Think About:

Something To Think About:
Children are like wet cement, whatever falls on them makes an impression.

--Hiam Ginott

Friday, January 9, 2009

15 Bean and Hamhock Soup

Divine goodness. That's what this is! I have loved this since I was a child. I grew up on the poor side as a child. But I never knew it because my parents always made us 'feel rich'. This was one of the meals that made you feel like a millionaire and the great side benefit is that it is such a healthy meal for pennies. Lucky me that Duff grew up on it too. His first taste of this delicious bowl of soup was at Tommy Davis's house. He came home and raved about it and Grandma Duffy used to make it in her pressure cooker. I like a good heavy pot on the stove** or the slow cooker, which is how I did it yesterday. My dinner was done and in the crock pot by 10am. No worries. But regardless of the method, it is a winner! Start with a bag of 15 bean soup found in the rice and bean section of the grocery store. Any will do I guess, but my preference is HamBeens brand by Hurst's.
Oh, just look at all of those wonderful legumes and protein! It's a beautiful sight, just screaming old fashioned goodness.

The beans are dry, so you have to soak them. I do this the night before right after I finish the dinner dishes so I don't forget! I put them in this big mixing bowl and cover with 2 quarts of water. Soak them overnight (that's best) or at least 8 hours.
After soaking, put in crockpot with 2 quarts of fresh water brought to a boil either on the stovetop or microwave.
Add:
a room temperture hamhock (you can warm it up in the microwave).
1 15oz. can diced tomatoes heated in the microwave*
1 teaspoon chili powder
Juice of one lemon OR 3 tbsp. lemon juice from Realemon
2-3 cloves of minced garlic
Put the lid on and cook on HIGH for 6-8 hours depending on how your slow cooker cooks.
Remove the hamhock and take the meat off the bones if it hasn't already fallen off by now. Then take a potato masher and go through and mash up some of the beans. This helps to thicken it slightly.
Season with salt and pepper to taste. (I don't ever use the ham packet. I don't know why, I just never have.)
Oh, and this is what you end up with! It is soooo good. I serve it with some cornbread and honey.
Yield: Just about 3 quarts that serves 10-14

You can also make this with leftover roast, chicken, turkey, etc.
*I like to preheat these ingredients before I put them in the crockpot. It gets everything to the proper cooking temperature faster, lessening the cooking time. This is a great tip for slowcooking.
**If you are cooking it stovetop, combine all ingredients after soaking, bring to a boil, turn down to a simmer, cover and cook for roughly 3-4 hours, stirring occasionally.

(As with a lot of these kinds of soups, it even tastes better the day after!)

Thursday, January 8, 2009

SCOTCHEROOS

Need sticky, chewy and chocolatey all in one bite? These no-bake bar cookies have it all! I made up a batch last night. My family likes both kinds of rice krispie treats, but if they have a choice, they'd take these everytime! They are super easy.

Prep: 5 min - Cook: 5 min - Cool: 15 min

9X13 pan
Nonstick cooking spray
1 cup creamy peanut butter
1 cup granulated sugar
1 cup light corn syrup
6 cups rice krispie cereal
1 cup Butterscotch Flavored chips
1 cup Semi-Sweet Chocolate chips

Spray your pan with Pam. Measure rice krispies into a large bowl. I like to use a big tupperware bowl. Combine peanut butter, sugar and corn syrup in medium saucepan. Cook over medium-low heat, stirring frequently, until melted. Don't bring to a boil, it will make it too stiff. Remove from heat. Add to cereal; stir until thoroughly coated. Press onto bottom of prepared 9 X 13 baking pan.

Microwave butterscotch chips and semi-sweet chocolate chips in large, uncovered, microwave-safe bowl on HIGH (100%) power for 1 minute; STIR. Morsels may retain some of their original shape. If necessary, microwave at additional 10- to 15-second intervals, stirring just until smooth. Spread over cereal miture. OR:

Combine in a small saucepan and stir constantly until completely melted. ( I prefer this method.)Spread over cereal mixture.

REFRIGERATE for 15 to 30 minutes or until topping is firm. Cut into bars.

Makes 30 bars

It's A Done Deal!

Remember back in October of last year at the cabin the week after conference? When I stayed for a week and got to hang out with Josh and Meredith and Nats and Robert? N & R were working on their kitchen table re-do and Meredith was learning how to sew and making a 'project'. Well, here is the finished project! She made Josh a Harry Potter quilt for his Christmas gift. Click on it to enlarge it and look at the details. She backed it with a soft black velour and had it quilted with spirals all over. The larger appliques are outlined so their shapes show up on the back. Josh LOVED it. She is a 'goer', and wasn't sure she would like doing piecework, hand work, etc. But she discovered she really likes this kind of craft and is anxious to do another.
Now she wants to build a fabric supply. That is good to remember for gift giving!
Good work Meredith. This was quite an ambitious project for a beginner and you did an amazing job. You'll have to teach me some good tips!

Keys

When Duff and I were dating and it had turned serious, his dad pulled me aside and wanted me to know that his son had a hard time with keeping track of his keys and wallet. No problem: he'd be marrying me. Right? Miss 'Everything Is In It's Place'. Haha!

We have a 'place' in the laundry room for keys. A rack with a hook for each family member. It is where keys, wallets, purses go when you are home and not out. Right? You walk in the door, it is right there. First thing you do when you come in, last thing you grab on your way out.

Fast forward to 2 weeks ago. We bought our car 2 1/2 years ago. It came with 2 keys and fobs. I LOVE fobs. It is so nice to be able to open the back door and load things. It is wonderful to be able to push a little button and unlock the doors. But let's be honest--they are big and bulky for a key chain/ring. I don't mind. I'm a woman and I have a bunch of keys all together. They are all in the same place and the group of them are easy to find in the bottom of my purse. Men don't like all that bulk. Especially in a pants pocket.

About 6 months ago he misplaced his key for the car. No problem. That can happen. We still had one. This however meant that whenever he used 'my' car (or anyone else for that matter) the individual key and fob came off my ring. Less bulky, remember. Long story short, despite my kind reminders/protests to please keep all my keys together, it went M.I.A. and we discovered that fact on Christmas Eve. Just imagine for a moment having a perfectly good car and not be able to use it! At the holidays no less. Thank goodness we had Shaun still home and Josh and Meredith here with their cars.

So what do you do to replace a key? It's harder than you think! Fortunately, the car was in the garage and not locked. We could get the registration out and go to the dealership and prove that we owned it. To which they will cut you 'a' key (for a significant price) that may or may not sync up to the security mechanism to identify the key to turn on the car. To sync it up, the guys had to push the car out of the garage. Then you have to drain the security system power, which is the battery, then hook up this battery charger thingy (yes, which we had to go buy... remember: we couldn't use jumper cables because the car doesn't recognize the key to turn it on...). Hopefully at this point it tricks the car into identifying the key and it will turn over and start. Mission accomplished! It worked, with some conditions: the car still doesn't really recognize the key, so you have to try it several times and take it out of the ignition and turn it over then reinsert it and try again.

This was my day yesterday. I had several errands to run. I had planned them out systematically. Go here first, then there, over here, back there on the drive home. I should only be gone about 90 minutes. Well, 4 1/2 hours later, I arrive home practically in tears! The dang car wouldn't accept the key! Every place I went to it took longer and longer to start the car. Totally embarrassing at the car wash. I didn't realize, but your car is turned on/off 4 times during the process. To vacuum, to go through the wash station, to move it from the washing to the drying/detailing, and then to leave. It took forever and the employees were quite frustrated/annoyed. I left a larger tip than I normally do. They deserved it.

Finally I ended at the pharmacy and grocery store (thank goodness they are in the same center. I could just walk from one to the other.) I loaded up my groceries and the car wouldn't start. Again, and again, and again. For 35 minutes I tried to get that car to start. I watched many people come, shop, and leave in the time I was just trying to start my car. I even have a blister on my index finger from all the attempts. I finally called Duff who was flat in bed still with his back out. That's what I was at the pharmacy for. His anti-inflammatory and pain meds. He crawled down the stairs, got into the b-mer (cool looking/acting car, but not comfortable to get in and out of at all), and drove over so I could unload the groceries and come home. Of course, as soon as he pulled up it started! Like a sick child you have been up with all night and when you go to the doctor they smile and act fine.

All of the story aside: while I was sitting there pondering about the car not working and how hard and frustrating this was, it came to me about having the right 'keys'. I thought about priesthood keys, the keys of callings. We have to have the keys through the right authority and worthiness or they don't work. Aha.........'Knew' that. Nice for the object lesson/reminder.

And yes, we are calling the dealership back today for further direction!

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Christmas Wallpaper

Bye, bye to our Christmas wallpaper. It came down today. We tape all our cards here in the kitchen. We were so touched by all the greetings we received this year. Each card is a personal relfection of the giver. We love feeling close to each and every person/family who goes up as part of the wallpaper. Each one is entirely unique. I keep all the picture ones after they come down. They are banded together. My goal is to put them in a book. It's fun to see the changes year after year.

(...not so subliminal message...)

Hi Family--

We really want you to read this article. It is straightforward and has great information and guidelines. We really like how it frames temporal preparedness and it's importance. We CAN do this. We MUST do this. Let's do it TOGETHER!

Love, Mom and Dad

The Twelve Months of Preparedness” By Carolyn Nicolaysen

This has been the season to think of the Savior's love, sacrifice and example. It is the season for us to reflect on what we can give back to Him in the coming year. One of the greatest gifts we can give is a strong commitment to follow God's counsel to prepare and provide for ourselves and our families, to become self reliant.

While we celebrate the blessings of this season, we can set aside our fears of these perilous times, and focus on our faith and spiritual preparedness for the road ahead. We remember that anything is possible with Christ at our side.

Consider the Twelve Months of Preparedness we have seen in 2008 – where in every instance that faith was challenged by tragic natural disasters, there have been those among the rubble who were remarkably prepared for their challenge, who could not only protect their families, but provide for their neighbors as Good Samaritans. If you knew in January 2008 what you now know about 2008, what would you have done differently? Consider both natural events and man-made calamities, including the world-wide economic crisis. Surely all of us would have done something very differently, had we known the course of world events, and how quickly fortunes can be reversed. In one respect or another, we would have been better prepared had we known then what we know now.

Consider too, the remarkable natural disasters of the twelve months just ending, only a few of which I can include in this abbreviated almanac:

January 2008 brought a series of tornadoes caused by record-breaking temperatures to Arkansas, Illinois, Missouri, and Wisconsin.
February 2008 saw violent tornadoes rip through Tennessee, Arkansas, Alabama, Kentucky and Missouri.
March 2008 - it was Georgia 's turn to experience the violence of a tornado. Major flooding caused severe problems from Arkansas to Illinois, and in Kentucky, Missouri, and Ohio. Even in Texas and Pennsylvania people were forced to flee their homes.
April 2008 - three horrific tornadoes struck Norfolk, Suffolk, and Colonial Heights, Virginia. At least 90 people were seriously injured.
May 2008 brought more twisters, this time to Oklahoma, Missouri, and Georgia. Twenty-one deaths were reported on May 11th, and Oklahoma declared a state of emergency.
June 2008 brought tremendous floods to the Midwest - Indiana, Iowa, Illinois, Missouri, and Wisconsin saw some of the most severe flooding ever recorded as storms caused already swollen rivers and lakes to overflow. It was also in June that a tornado killed four Boy Scouts and injured 48 others when it tore through the Little Sioux Scout Ranch in western Iowa.
July 2008 was a warning to Southern California residents that The Big One is overdue. A 5.4 Richter earthquake shakes the metro area, and people scramble to buy batteries, bottled water and supplies from L.A. supermarket shelves.
August 2008 - Tropical Storm Fay made landfall four times in Florida and Georgia.
September 2008 - Hurricane Gustav forces the entire city of New Orleans to evacuate, leaves more than one million homes without power, and kills at least 26 people in Louisiana, Georgia, and Mississippi. Tropical Storm Hanna strikes Haiti, killing hundreds of people and leaving many more injured or missing. September then produced Hurricane Ike in the Caribbean, which ultimately landed in Texas where it caused at least 50 deaths, and forced thousands more to evacuate their homes, and millions to lose power for an extended time. As Ike traveled inland, the storm weakened to a tropical depression, but torrential rain caused severe flooding and power outages in parts of Louisiana, Kansas, Missouri, and Illinois.
October 2008 – A man-made crisis takes center stage: a financial crisis called the worst since the Great Depression began to unfold in September, and becomes Topic One in October, leading many to experience financial calamity, loss of their homes and jobs. Need we say more, as this still is unfolding…
November 2008 - Fueled by hurricane strength “ Santa Ana ” winds, three wildfires burned for several days consuming 40,000 acres of land, and causing thousands to evacuate their homes in Southern California. A state of emergency was declared in five counties.
December 2008 – In New England and New York at least 800,000 homes were left without electricity for several days during a severe ice storm. Canada, the Northwest, Midwest, and Northeast USA are blanketed by winter storms - residents of Washington State from the San Juan Islands to the Cascades suffer from blizzards, ice storms, and power outages. Also showing up on the radar screen in December – 150 cases of avian influenza in India are being treated, and medical teams from New Delhi have been dispatched, but so far no reports of the H5N1 virus have been verified. Since the virus surfaced five years ago, 200 people have died from it, and officials watch carefully that it does not become the next pandemic, which all nations fear.

As we look ahead to the next lap in life's journey, consider the counsel of modern prophets and apostles in declaring the value of self-reliance:

President Thomas S. Monson said, “ Self-reliance is a product of our work and under-girds all other welfare practices. It is an essential element in our spiritual as well as our temporal well-being. Regarding this principle, President Marion G. Romney has said: ‘Let us work for what we need. Let us be self-reliant and independent. Salvation can be obtained on no other principle. Salvation is an individual matter, and we must work out our own salvation in temporal as well as in spiritual things.'" (In Welfare Services Meeting Report, 2 Oct. 1976, p. 13. Thomas S. Monson, “Guiding Principles of Personal and Family Welfare,” Ensign, Sep 1986.)

Since President Brigham Young, every prophet has counseled us to become self reliant. President Marion G Romney also related the following as he emphasized the need for self reliance:

"Great flocks of Florida gulls were once starving amid plenty. Fishing was good, but the gulls did not know how to fish. Generations of gulls depended on the shrimp fleet to toss them scraps from the nets, but then the fleet moved. The big birds, once so free, never bothered to learn how to fish for themselves and they never taught their children how to fish. Instead, they led their little ones to the shrimp nets. People tend to be like these gulls. They see nothing wrong with picking scraps from spiritual, emotional, and intellectual shrimp fleets. The point is that ‘the practice of coveting and receiving unearned benefits has now become… fixed in our societyThis practice, if universally accepted and implemented in any society, will make slaves of its citizens" (The Celestial Nature of Self-Reliance , Ensign, November 1982, 91).

Church leaders have asked us to plant gardens, learn basic skills, get out of debt, and to store a supply of food and supplies for our household. The messages may vary according to the resources available and the challenges of the time, but the message has remained the same. We need to be prepared to care of our own.

In the face of a very uncertain 2009, both economically and in every other way, we stand together as brothers and sisters in the face of challenges that may at times seem insurmountable. Will we have compassion for our neighbor, and the resolve and humility to obey the Lord's many warnings?

“Many more people could ride out the storm-tossed waves in their economic lives if they had their year's supply of food … and were debt-free. Today we find that many have followed this counsel in reverse: they have at least a year's supply of debt and are food-free." (President Thomas S. Monson "That Noble Gift—Love at Home,” Church News, May 12, 2001.)

It has been my experience that spiritual preparedness is much more difficult when temporal preparedness has been ignored. As we have gathered with family and friends these past weeks, we can and should commit to becoming self reliant in 2009. Take photos of your family and friends and display them everywhere in your home. When we are tempted to spend money on trivial wants, we can reflect instead on our real treasures as we think about those closest to our hearts. Let these photos become a reminder of where those treasures really lie.

Let 2009 be the year we seek help to learn how to be self-reliant.

Let this be the year we focus on paying off debt and freeing ourselves from bondage.

Let this be the year we set-aside things that matter least, and give priority to setting our homes, our property, our gardens and pantries in order.

Above all let this be the year we demonstrate our love for our Savior by following good counsel and becoming temporally and spiritually prepared.

Happy Birthday Bekah and Brooke!


Happy Birthday To You
Happy Birthday To You
Happy Birthday Dear Nieces--
Happy Birthday To You!
Bekah from my side of the fam, and Brooke from Duff's side of the fam. Have a wonderful day filled with all your dreams come true! We love you so much!

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

This Just In.....

  • Snow, snow, snow! Calls from Shaun, Natalie, and Nancee. 10 inches in Provo and more than that in Midway.
  • A survey has confirmed that if a woman eats 1 apple a day while pregnant, her baby will have a significantly higher percentage against asthma and allergies. Also, eating fish once a week gives a significantly higher percentage against excema. We have both of those in our family. Take note. If it does this for babies, imagine what they will do for us even if we aren't pregnant!
  • Wall street prediction: 72,000 retail stores will go under in the first 6 months of this year. (subliminal message) Get going on that provident living! (subliminal message)j

BACK ON TRACK


Okay family. We had December off for our food storage/emergency preparedness, and now it's time to get 'back on track'! We've all seen the effects of last year. It really is time to get serious about preparedness and provident living. A little at a time. This can be accomplished! Look to the right column and down. There it is!

This month is all about paper products. If you need to 'get up and get out' these will be essential.

Do you have your containers? Check out all the after holidays low prices at Target and Wal-Mart, etc. You can get a really good deal. We've been gathering for almost a year. So some of this will be familiar. Isn't it exciting to see it grow!

No matter where you are--GET STARTED! It's good to know we can encourage and support each other doing this.

Love, Mom and Dad

Monday, January 5, 2009

January Is:

Did you know that January is National Hobby Month? I didn't.

I think it's important to have hobbies. It helps us keep balance. It helps us grow. It makes us expand our world. I think hobbies are talents being developed.

My hobbies right now: stitchery, crochet, cooking, baking, blogging, reading

Hobbies I'd like to develop: quilting, digital scrapbooking, photography.

What are your hobbies now and what would you like to try?

January is 'Fresh'

  • Visiting Teaching Report (it took almost all day)
  • Duff to chiropractor and down flat for 2 days
  • Return a weeks worth of phone calls (took most of the day)
  • Dinner
  • Print December blog and file
  • Clean and pick up house
  • Carpool
  • Visited with Meredith and Josh
  • Made rice pudding with the left over from yesterday

After I printed out the December posts, I could change over to January. I love a winter look for January. Frosty and cool. I liked that last year too. I noticed that Jennifer and Gwen and I like the same page! It must run in the 'family'! Good taste, gals.

It was cold here again today. Not like the -6 it was yesterday morning when we left Midway, but cold for us. We had a big pot of soup for dinner. I got a lot done and it felt good to be back in a routine with Christine in school. I like January. It feels 'fresh'.

Sunday, January 4, 2009

Home

We are home. We woke up and Duff's back was so bad, he couldn't get out of bed. So we got a later start than we wanted. He insisted on starting to drive. Why? I ended up doing most of the driving after all! The trip was non-eventful and we didn't even have very much traffic out of Vegas on a Sunday at 4 pm at the end of a holiday weekend. Unheard of!

We walked in the door to the most delicious aroma! Meredith had made a Sunday roast beef dinner for us to have when we got home. Can I just say how it really hit the spot after a day of being on the road. It was really good and I appreciated it more than I can say. Who wants to think about making a meal after driving all day? She put it in the crock pot and I loved her recipe. Very easy, but oh so good. The meal was complimented with some biscuits and jam which a great touch. Thanks, Mere! Love you!

Mike came by for a while too. It's a little quiet with Shaun being gone after having him home for a year. Always a transition when a family member leaves home. Love that guy!

The guys unloaded the car and Duff went straight to the couch. He will be at the chiropractor first thing in the morning. Already made the appointment. They took the garbage cans out and the tree. Christine is less than thrilled to go back to school tomorrow. But she is a trooper. We'll all be back in the 'groove' by the end of the week. Our mutual night changes this year to Tuesday instead of Wednesday. I like that because Wednesdays are her late start day and she can sleep in after YW and finish up any homework she couldn't get done.

Meredith and I are up late. She is trying to get all caught up on the previous seasons of 24 before the season starts next week. I am too wound up from driving so I've been laying on the couch and we're watching together while she is finishing the binding on Josh's quilt she made him for Christmas. I'll get a picture tomorrow. It turned out really nice.

I still have decorations all up except for the tree, but I'm not so stressed about it. I'll get it done eventually. Oh, the next episode is starting....