Something To Think About:

Something To Think About:
Children are like wet cement, whatever falls on them makes an impression.

--Hiam Ginott

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Preparedness for APRIL

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We haven't talked about preparedness items for a while, so it's time to get going on it again!  Emergency items is the theme for April.  The items are pretty easy to take care of.

A lock box is the one that will require a little effort, but go to Staples (which is close by for all of us), and just bite the bullet.  The photocopy all those papers and get them in there.  Whew.  That's DONE.  And now when you get additional important stuff, you only have to copy it quick and add it to the group.  Put your loose change in some kind of container at the end of each day.  You will be surprised how fast it adds up, and that can be the beginning of your extra cash.

Get those candles and matches while you are at Walmart or Target.  We all go there.  Put it on your list!  Ditto with the flashlight and batteries.  Store the batteries in the refrigerator for longer life.  One stop, and you've got it done.

Wah-lah.  Doesn't that feel good?!

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

~Duffy Doings~ 2007

I DID IT!

I finished editing my first blog book and sent it off to be printed. WooHoo.  I think I did an okay job.  We'll see when it comes!  I used blurb, and quite liked it.  But it is the only program I've used, so I guess I should.  There are SO MANY options for text layouts, picture layouts, spread layouts, etc. 

I want to SHOUT OUT to my cousin, Roberta, for encouraging me to blog.  She got me started so I could keep in touch with family and have a better way to journal.

Also, a SHOUT OUT to another cousin, Kristin, for encouraging me to try and print it into a book.  She answered every insecure question I had and taught me long distance.

I'll let you know when it arrives!  I learned a LOT and will start my 2008 book next.  I've got some catching up to do.

(Laundry, laundry, laundry.  Family still not feeling well.  Mike came home from work and went to bed.  Today is a 'celebration of life' day.  Glad to be alive and have my family all with me.)

Monday, April 18, 2011

Insurance Change

For the record:  I AM NOT HAPPY ABOUT THIS AT ALL!!!

This stupid recession.  Duff changed our insurance at work.  It wasn't up for discussion.  Our whole married life we have had insurance where we can choose our own doctors for everything.  The doctors we have now, we have gone to for 20 years.

I found out, actually, at my well-woman exam.  I checked in and handed them the insurance card.  They called me up to the counter to let me know it was not in force.  WHAT?   I called Duff, and he said that was true, and he forgot to tell me.  Things have been out of control busy around here, but really?

So now we are with a 'group', we have to go to their doctors--for everything--and I am having a hard time with this.  I finally called today to make our new patient appointments.  Then had to go down there to transfer our prescriptions (we have to use their pharmacy...which is 20-25 minutes away instead of CVS which is in our 'backyard' so to speak).  The pharmacist that was helping me was very patient as I explained my lack of enthusiasm to be with them.  She leaned over the counter and told me that even though she works for them, she has her insurance another place!  Yeah.  I guess this group gives their employees a choice of insurance.  Hmmm.  That didn't inspire a lot of confidence in me.  I don't mean it to sound like a big criticism, I just don't want to change all of our doctors.  Eyes, dermotologist, pediatrician, family care, Duff's cardiologist (which he has to have because his youngest brother had a major heart attack at 47), etc.  Boo hoo.  I know I'm being really whiney.  I should be glad we have insurance at all.  Some people don't have it.

So, there it is.

Sick House

Duff and I--still no symptoms.  Crossing our fingers. 
Everyone else: not so good.

Christine came home from school after 1st period.  Slept almost all day.  She was determined to play in her game tonight.  I debated and debated.  She finally convinced me.  She can be quite competitive sometimes and there is a new freshman girl on the team who has been trying out the goalie position.  This is a good thing, because there needs to be a backup.  It is a bad thing because Chris doesn't want her to gain any advantage over her role as the goalie.

She played an awesome game.  It ended in a tie.  The coaches played the other girl the first half.  We were down by four.  Chris came in and defended so well that we moved ahead and Corona Del Mar got the tieing goal in the last 5 seconds of the game.  Bummer.

She came home.  Got in a hot shower.  Went to bed.  The advil wore off.  She was feeling awful. 

Mike and Adrianne went to work, but weren't well.

Wonder what tomorrow will bring.

Sunday, April 17, 2011

Everyone's Sick Around Here

Everyone here is sick.  Except me and Duff. 
Sore throats, aches, pains, low-grade fevers, chills, headaches, shakey, dizzy.  Duff went to church and I stayed home to minister to the sickies.
I gave them orange juice and advil and they all went back to bed and slept most of the day.

Every year during the winter, one of Duff's business acquaintances sends us a huge box of these oranges.  I can't remember the name, but they are so juicy that they include bibs in the box!  We had two full trays left and I decided to juice them instead of leaving them to eat.  They yielded a whole 1/2 gallon of pure, sweet, lusciousness.  Maybe next year when the gigantic box comes, I'll just juice them all right away.  It was soooo good, you couldn't compare it to anything else.  It was so naturally sweet.  Reminds me of the juice from the tangelos that my mom and dad have growing in their backyard.  Duff and I have often talked about planting a tangelo tree--just for the juice.

Now.  Where to plant it.........

Saturday, April 16, 2011

Bonnet Movie

Robert 'affectionately' calls these kinds of movies, Bonnet Movies.  I actually kind of like that term.
We went and saw this new movie of Jane Eyre last night.
I had my doubts because I am such a devoted fan of the A&E version of the story.
I'm happy to say that it was splendid.  True to the book, and did the A&E movie justice.  This Mr. Rochester is much better looking too.
It was a girl's night out.  Me, Patti, Natalie, Christine, Adrianne, and Meredith.
Golden Spoon afterwards.
The guys stayed home and made breakfast for dinner, watched JT and John.  All was good when we got home.  Papa Duff had it all under control, baby and all.  He was happy he hadn't lost his 'touch'. Haha!  He was always so good with our kids when they were babies and toddlers.

My Favorite Beach Picture of John, and Getting Them Home

I think this is one of my favorites from yesterday.
Duff and I drove Natalie and John to Desert Center.  It is pretty much 1/2 way between our house and theirs.  Robert met us there and we made the exchange.  Loaded everything up in their car and off they went to Phoenix and we came back home.
Missing them already....

Camera Bag


Go to Mary Janes and Galoshes to see the wonderful Kelly Moore camera bags they are giving away!  Which one would you choose?

I love them ALL, but at this point in my camera-ing, I would choose the Posey in orange, or the B-Hobo in brown or mustard.

Crossing my fingers to win one---

Friday, April 15, 2011

First Time at The Beach

He wasn't too sure at first.
We forget how loud the waves are crashing on the shore.
And the sand--that was a new sensory experience too.
But once he realized it was all okay, there was no stopping him.
Ran after the ocean fearlessly.

The Beach

We took John to the beach today after his nap.
It was really beautiful.
We went to Aliso Creek beach for an hour around 5pm.
Here are the beach pictures first.  The ones with John will follow, but I took so many that it's probably best to divide them up.  Get ready for picture overload.

It is hard to explain, but there is something about that first step onto the sand at the beach.  The one where you kick off your flip flops and sink into the mounds of little grains.  There is nothing like it.  Going back to the car, you shower them all off only to find a million of them stuck between your toes still once they dry.
And then the give and take of the waves.  The sound.  The smell.  The sun shining just so at every perspective.  Going back to the car, you shower them all off only to find a million of them stuck between your toes.

Natalie's Haircut

Natalie wanted a haircut before she went home.
She had 12 inches cut off.  It looks really good.  I think it will be better for her with a toddler.  She kept saying how light her head felt.  No wonder.  She has such thick hair and a ton of it.  She gets that from her Grandma Duffy.
While she was gone, Johnny Boy helped me water all the pots in the backyard.  We discovered 2 sprinklers that aren't working.  And the iceberg roses are beginning to bloom.  We had a tug of war with the hose.  He loves water, and the hose, and didn't really care if the geraniums and ferns got a drink as long as he could play in it.

Thursday, April 14, 2011

Provo Tabernacle Fire Cause Report

I read this a couple of weeks ago.  It made me heart-sick.  I love this building.  My vote would be to rebuild.  The same floor plan, architecture, similar looking building materials, but with up to date codes and electrical, plumbing, etc. Such a sad combination of mistakes.  I feel bad for all involved.
Deseret News 

Report: Light fixture, human error caused Provo Tabernacle fire

Published: Thursday, March 31, 2011 5:40 p.m. MDT 

PROVO — A lighting technician who mistakenly set a 300-watt light fixture on a wooden speaker box in the attic caused the fire that destroyed the Provo Tabernacle last December, according a report released Thursday.

The 135-page Provo Fire Department report concluded that a series of human errors contributed to the devastating blaze, including failure to recognize an unsafe lighting condition and a lack of urgency to report signs of a fire.

A task force of state and city investigators spent about 3 ½ months determining how the iconic structure built by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints more than a century ago burned down.  The blaze caused an estimated $15 million in damage.

Provo Fire Marshal Lynn Schofield said several missteps were made leading up to and through the discovery of the fire and the report does not "sugarcoat" them. "We didn't spare anybody," he said. "It's a finding of fact."

BYU Broadcasting hired Clearfield-based Trax AV to set up lights and sound for the taping of a Christmas production two days before the Dec. 17 fire. A lighting technician removed two recessed incandescent ceiling lights to suspend a truss holding temporary stage lights. He set one ceiling light on a wooden speaker box in the attic without removing the bulb, according to the report.

That light came on with the rest of the house lights at 7 p.m. when about 200 singers, musicians and a BYU film crew assembled to rehearse composer Lex de Azevedo's "Gloria" the night before the fire.

"They get very hot very quickly," said Schofield, estimating the light left in the attic reached 600 degrees in 30 minutes. The speaker box, he said, was on fire by about 9:30 p.m., while the performers were still in the building. The left about 11 p.m.

The report deemed the fire "unintentional." Schofield said the lighting technician, Jeremy Ostler, simply made a mistake.

"There's no criminal act here. There's no criminal liability," Schofield said.  The LDS Church, though, could pursue civil action. "That would be up to them and their insurance company," he said.
Ostler, who owns Trax AV, said in an email that he read the report Thursday afternoon.

"I don't have much to say other than we deny the allegations that we were responsible for the fire. Many allegations against us are not true. However, because this is in litigation we cannot talk specifics at this time on the advice of our attorney," he wrote.

A search of state and federal court files did not show any current lawsuits.

Church officials have not yet decided whether to rebuild the tabernacle.

"The Provo Tabernacle was a meaningful part of church history and the Provo community. The recent fire is a tragedy for all who loved the building and its link to our pioneer past. Church leaders continue to evaluate and explore options for the building and we will make those plans known as soon as they are available," church spokesman Scott Trotter said Thursday.

Flames were discovered tearing through the historic edifice in the early morning hours of Dec. 17. Emergency dispatchers were called at 2:43 a.m. with a report of fire on the stage. A fire truck returning from an alarm in another part of the city arrived a minute later.

But signs of a fire were overlooked for at least five hours before then, according to the report.

The intense fire ravaged the building and smoldered for several days afterward. Crews pumped more than a million gallons of water on the inferno.

Though the report called the cause unintentional, it cited human errors as contributing factors, including failure to see and correct an unsafe condition with the light that was removed.

"The lighting technicians did not recognize, or chose to ignore the hazard associated with an energized 300-watt lamp being placed onto a wood surface. The packaging for the lamp used in the fixture of origin, a Sylvania model 300BR40/FL clearly states: 'Do not allow paper or other flammable or heat sensitive materials within 12 inches of the glass bulb during operation,'" according to the report.

Several individuals had concerns about whether the lamps were removed from the light fixtures. "None of these individuals spoke with, or questioned, the lighting technician, nor did they go to the attic and ensure that the lamps had been removed."

Human error also contributed to the fire not being reported in a timely manner, the report states.

A camera operator told investigators he smelled smoke as early as 9:30 p.m., but he and another camera operator attributed it to the hot lights.

At 1 a.m., a courier on his delivery route saw what he described as "fog" at the east end of the building, but did not smell smoke or alert anyone. About 10 minutes later, off-duty Provo police officer Austin Williams — hired as a security guard for the building — heard an alarm that he took to be a burglar alarm. When he reached the alarm control panel in the tabernacle, he did not recognize it as a fire alarm control panel, the report said.  "He did not see or follow the first instruction (on the panel): 'What to Do: Evacuate the building and notify the fire department,'" according to the report.

The fire alarm system was also having problems, failing an inspection and testing on Dec. 2, 2010, the report notes. The most frequent locations of false alarms reported were in the northwest turret and the attic.
"It is the conclusion of the investigators, that building coordinators developed apathy to the fire alarm system, due to the frequent false alarms that contributed to an inappropriate response on the morning of the fire," the report states.

At 2:39 a.m., Brian Jensen, a security guard at neighboring Nu Skin, saw what he believed to be steam or smoke coming from the tabernacle roof. He alerted Williams who re-entered the building and upon seeing flames on the stage, called fire dispatchers, the report states.

Other factors that played a role were the lack of adequate fire detection and alarm systems and an automatic sprinkler system.

Determining the cause proved to be one of the most arduous and comprehensive tasks fire investigators have ever undertaken in Utah. Schofield estimated officials put in 1,500 to 2,000 staff hours on the investigation, including igniting mock-ups of the wooden box with 300-watt lights.

Safety concerns, freezing temperatures and heavy snowfall hampered investigators' initial efforts to get into the gutted building. Construction crews had to stabilize the remaining walls before investigators went inside. Schofield described the ashen remains as a 25,000-piece jigsaw puzzle.

In addition to digging through mounds of charred rubble, investigators interviewed people who were in and around the tabernacle before the blaze was discovered.

The fire destroyed the tabernacle's distinctive pipe organ, HD video cameras, sound equipment, lights, a rented $200,000 Fazioli grand piano, harp, tympani and personal effects belonging to the performers.
De Azevedo earlier estimated that the organ was worth more than $1 million. A BYU Broadcasting official estimated the school lost equipment valued at $2 million in a production truck parked outside the building.

The tabernacle is one of the oldest buildings in Utah. The LDS Church started construction in 1883 and took 15 years to complete it at a cost of $100,000. It is listed on the U.S. National Register of Historic Places.
The building has octagonal towers at each of its four corners. Originally it featured a central tower 147 feet tall. The tabernacle was partly condemned 20 years after it was built because the roof was under such great stress from the clock tower. It was condemned again in 1949 for the same reason, forcing officials to remove the tower.