Something To Think About:

Something To Think About:
Children are like wet cement, whatever falls on them makes an impression.

--Hiam Ginott

Monday, August 11, 2008

08.08.08 Olympicsl


Today is the opening ceremony and the beginning of the 2008 Summer Olympic Games in Beijing, China. The Chinese find a lot of symbolism with numerology, so the Games began on 08-08-08 at 08:08 p.m.! The number 8 is a symbol of prosperity and luck for them. Pretty interesting, huh? They opening ceremony was so spectacular that the media have been evaluating it as something that will quite possibly never be able to be duplicated! They were amazing. The Chinese truly put eveything into it.
I have always been an Olympic junkie. I cannot get enough of all the events. I like them all. Lately, especially when I am in a crowd of any kind, my mind turns to the fact that we are all God's children. I marvel at His greatness and endless capacity, His love for each of us. I look at others and think, "They are my sister/brother." I am in awe of this. So I've been thinking that a lot while I've been watching the Games the last couple of days. I wonder sometimes what He is thinking when He looks down at them.
So, here's to the 2008 Summer Games!

Sunday, August 10, 2008

Gold Medals All Around

Talk about tired! I think it is finally hitting me that the summer is almost gone and we have passed through the wedding and most of the things on our summer calendar that required lots of energy.

Duff was up and out early as usual for a Sunday morning. Christine and I slept in, then I got the roast in the oven. I wanted to duplicate my Aunt's meal from last week--I've just had that in my mind! Then out the door to pick up the Waller boys for church.

We left our meetings early and headed down to Mike and Adrianne's ward to hear Adrianne speak in Sacrament Meeting. She did a FABULOUS job. Her talk was very well thought out and written with just the right balance of doctrine, scriptures, and stories to illustrate the points. If mothers-in-law have any right to 'bust our buttons' I was doing just that. I was thinking on the drive home, how blessed we are that she and Mike found each other and she is part of our family.

We have been watching the Olympics. Go USA! I love the medals ceremonies. Just like the olympians, in my book, Adrianne got a Gold Medal today too!

Saturday, August 9, 2008

Takes Me Back

I have to write this down so I don't forget it. As I mentioned before, while we were in northern California we stayed with my Auntie Ann. She had a delicious roast beef, mashed potato dinner waiting for us when we got there after a day of being on the road. As we sat down to eat, I was instantly taken back to when I was a little girl and my family would go to my grandparents duplex on 21st street in Manhattan Beach. This was such a fun house. I associate lots of warm fuzzy feelings with going there, one of which is my grandma's roast beef dinners on Sunday. The food from my grandmother's kitchen made you feel loved, safe, happy.

She always served broccoli with cheese sauce with her roast beef, and true to form decades later, my aunt does the same thing! I haven't had broccili with cheese sauce in forever, and it was an instant transport to back to those childhood days.


When my grandma passed away, my aunt got her Franciscanware Apple Dishes. We always ate on these at Mamo Myrna's and we ate on them that night. Another trip down the lane of wonderful memories. I have always loved these plates. So much so, that I have often considered getting some for my own home. I think they are timeless and classy.

I'm sure Auntie Ann had no idea the feelings these two things would bring to me and I never mentioned it to her, but am grateful for the simple, silent happy experience it was.

( We went to the Newell's this morning to watch the kids open their gifts. Again, people are so kind and generous. Since it was around noon when we finished, Tammie served some of the extra dessert from last night. My favorite is this one that was kind of like a fruit cobbler. I asked her for the recipe and she is going to send it to me. It was amazing, and there is fruit so it's healthy, right? And Auntie Ann wouldn't let us leave without a big breakfast of cinnamon rolls, scrambled eggs, and hashbrowns.

Then we were on the road for home. It's really not too bad of a drive. Mike and Adrianne stayed at the house and took care of Darla and the garden and the flower pots. They did a good job and even had dinner hot and ready for us when we got home. I've been trying to make some headway with Breaking Dawn and am about 1/2 way through now. I'm liking it.)

Friday, August 8, 2008

08-08-08


You don't see something like the date above very often!

We are safely in the Sacramento area and having a great time with my Auntie Ann and her family. We are staying with her while we are in town. She is my father's sister. I have seen every one of my cousins who are in town and their spouses and children today! Duff golfed with Frank this morning at 8am and had a really good time. We lunched at a fun sandwich shop called Jersey Mike's and it was every bit as delicious as they told us. There was a nice delta breeze coming through from San Francisco so we sat outside to eat and visit, visit, visit.

My cousin, Jeff, has a 15 year old son who as Christine would say is a 'hottie', and Jake has been over at his grandma's most of the time! Chris brought up a friend from home with her, Addy, and they have been having fun with Jake playing Skip-Bo and watching AFV and getting to know each other. They have been swimming in Auntie Ann's pool too.

It's time to get ready for the Open House, so I'll sign off for now. I do have my camera this time, and I am taking pictures which I will add when I get home tomorrow.

Loving and Missing You All--

(journal: The open house was wonderful. Mark and Tammie did a very nice job transforming their backyard into a beautiful haven for greeting guests and visiting. It ended up being a gorgeous night--not too hot for August--and we loved meeting Robert's friends and family. We got to also see my dad's brother, Bob and his wife, Kay, as well Danny and Vickie Jenks who I grew up with in Torrance! Talk about a small world. Then too were our long time friends from our early BYU days, Mark and Judy McKinney. They are the kind of friends that no matter how long you are apart, as soon as you get together it is like no time has passed between visits. After the open house clean up, they had us over for some take-out P.F.Changs and to watch the Olympics Opening Ceremony. I don't really know how much of that we truly watched because we did so much visiting. Good think I dvr'd it before we left!)

Thursday, August 7, 2008

Batman--Another Perspective


This was in my email this morning. A review of The Dark Knight which I mentioned I didn't really care for. But after reading this, I see it in a different way. What do you think????

M E R I D I A N M A G A Z I N E
The Dark Knight is a Powerful Morality TaleBy Jonathan Decker

(Note: The following contains potential plot spoilers for those who have not yet seen the film).
All Photos Copyright Stephen Vaughan/Warner Bros. Pictures.

Quite the contrary to Don Feder's take on The Dark Knight, I found the film to be a riveting moral drama whose hero inspires audiences to hold fast to their values and not make ethical compromises. The movie is dark, to be certain, and definitely not for children; however, the use of darkness can be effective when its purpose is to let the light shine through, as this film does brilliantly. The Joker seems metaphorical for the devil, a being for whom bringing misery to others is the only source of pleasure. And yes, just like in the real world, even the very elect can fall, as is the case with Harvey Dent.

However the film is upliftingly full of virtuous heroes who stand against evil. Take Bruce Wayne/Batman, for example. While The Joker is indeed an “agent of chaos,” who devilishly appeals to the “natural man” instincts of Wayne , the fact that the latter does not give in to the serpent's temptation and refuses to become a killer speaks volumes to the film's favor.
While many Hollywood heroes casually and callously dispense bullets and vengeance, Batman is refreshingly hesitant to take a life. Furthermore, the hero puts himself in great danger to protect innocent people, and is willing to give up his own freedom in order to save human lives. He specifically risks his life for a man who is out to ruin him; in doing so, Bruce Wayne gives a fine example of “love your enemies, do good to them that hate you” (Matthew 5:44-45). Furthermore, the powerhouse finale finds Batman making great self-sacrifice to maintain the integrity of Harvey Dent, a man victimized into madness by the Joker. The hero willingly allows himself to be falsely accused, hated, and hunted in order to protect the people and restore their hope.

Bruce Wayne/Batman isn't the only moral hero of the film. What of Commissioner Gordon, a family man whose commitment to his wife, to his children, and to saving lives provides another layer of humanity to the film? His desperate cry of “We have to save Harvey ! I… have to save Harvey !” gives us a man dedicated to redeeming a friend who has lost his soul. Gordon is a character who is penitent for his mistakes, who upholds the law, and who loves his family. These are virtues seldom found in Hollywood productions, and they are to be applauded.
What of the boat passengers (including criminals) who, in a powerful scene, selflessly refuse to take the lives of others to save themselves? Do they not exemplify the great love, spoken of by the Savior, of offering one's own life for another? What of Lucius Fox, a man of principle, dedicated to the freedom and agency of the people? What of the character of Alfred? The loyal butler encourages Bruce to “be the outcast and make the right choice” declaring (as did Mormon, Moroni , and Joseph Smith) the importance of standing for correct principles even if we are alone in doing so.

The Dark Knight is a dark film, but it is also a fantastically moral film, with positive messages about our nature. The portrayal of violence is clearly divided between the evil, who kill and destroy, and the good, who use force when necessary for self-defense or defense of the innocent. The Joker is sadistic and selfish, and he believes the rest of the world to be so; Batman believes in the inherent goodness of humanity. The moral climax of the film comes when The Joker waits for the terrified citizens of Gotham to turn on each other, only to be shocked when, instead, they band together and follow their consciences. Seeing The Joker's puzzled expression, Batman states: “What did you expect, that they were all like you? You're alone. This city is full of people ready to believe in good.”

.... I feel that it is one of the most morally-centered films of recent times, one whose theme might be summarized as: “Evil exists in the world, and it is seductive and at times seems insurmountable. Standing for the right often requires courage, sacrifice, steadfastness, and the willingness to endure loneliness.”

The world is growing worse, and the Joker reflects that madness. However, in resisting him Batman provides a deeply virtuous protagonist who inspires us to not compromise our values. Ironically, it is the Joker who describes the hero best, when he asks Batman, with a fascinating mixture of shock, disgust, and begrudging respect, “You truly are incorruptible, aren't you?” The Dark Knight provides us with a hero worth rooting for.

Wednesday, August 6, 2008

Errands

Yesterday Natalie and I ran a bunch of errands to exchange duplicate gifts, mail thank you cards, exchange stamps at the post office, etc. Josh and Meredith spent the day at Disneyland since Josh finished work on Monday. They take off for the Shakespeare Festival later this week and then will head to the cabin on Sunday. While at Downtown Disney, they went to the Lego Store and Josh got a Star Wars kit--he was ALWAYS a Lego kid. Lots and lots of projects and building. It was pretty big and intricate, but after working most of the day, he finished it.

Today, Duff and I spent some time with one of Shaun's doctors, and then grabbed some In-N-Out for lunch. Natalie and Robert packed up some more of her room and left for No. California to get ready for the open house. It was kind of fun to send off the newlyweds in their packed up car getting ready to start their new life together!

Adrianne speaks in church on Sunday. She is nervous, but they were over last night and she had her MAC with her finishing up her talk, and had me go over it. It is very well thought out and written. We will be back in time from the open house to go and hear her give it. I know she will do a great job. She and Mike are co-den leaders in their cubbing program. When I was a den leader, once upon a time, it was probably one of the best callings I have ever had! There is something energizing and wonderful about 8-10 year old boys and their zest for life.

I've been a flake and not had the camera out at all. I'll try to do better! Just been so busy and I think about taking a picture after the moment has passed!

Josh and Mere's day for dinner. They made yummy chicken enchiladas, big mexican salad and sweet corn cake. Not only was it good, but it looked like it came from a restaurant all plated up! The Food Network would have given the colors and textures a thumbs up.

(subliminal message: Shaun, you are loved...)

Tuesday, August 5, 2008

Italy vs. Holland

Story to remember:

I lived my whole life planning to go to Holland. Since I was a child I dreamed of what it would be like to walk along the dykes and waterways, visit the tulip gardens, the windmills, wooden shoes, the blue and white dishware, the bakeries and pasteries and food of the Netherlands. I cut out pictures from magazines, read books, studied maps, and carved out a very detailed plan for the time there.

The time finally came. My preparations were going as dreamt of and planned. All my studying was paying off. My itinerary was set and I had envisioned it so many times that it would go off without a hitch. I boarded the plane and settled in for the anticipated ride.

As we landed, the pilot came on over the loudspeaker and announced that there had been a change of plans and instead of landing in Holland we had now arrived in Italy as our destination! What?? No! This cannot be! I was not prepared for Italy! I didn't want to be in Italy! I was supposed to be in Holland!

I had no way to get to Holland. I must make the best of my time and money now in Italy. I slowly began to find that there were amazing things in Italy. I learned a lot about a different culture, foods, landscape, scenery, history. As time went by, I started to realize that this detour was just as exciting and exhilarating as my anticipated journey to Holland and I would have totally missed it if I had been in charge.

I found that Italy is just as wonderful as Holland, and who would have known, except the Pilot?

Monday, August 4, 2008

PROVIDENT LIVING FOR AUGUST

Hi Family--

Look to the right side-bar for the new food storage this month. We kind of got off track in July with the wedding, but now it's time to get back on board.

This is kind of a fun one, because when you put these away it looks like you have done a lot and it gives you a sense of accomplishment!

After that dang earthquake last week, I feel stronger now than ever that we need to be prepared!

Love You All--

Sunday, August 3, 2008

It's All About The One

...more coming soon....

Saturday, August 2, 2008

There's No Place Like Home...

...except the cabin. We are home now. Took an evening flight. For about an hour this afternoon I wanted to stay for another day or two. Then real life kicked in and I couldn't wait until I got HOME with my family. The people I love the most in this world. The ones Duff and I brought into this world and the spouses who've joined us.

I sat next to a ten year old little girl on the plane. She was going home. She and her two sisters and mother had been visiting an aunt in A.F. She told me she was so happy that a girl was sitting next to her. She had been worried it might be a 'boy'. She was quite social for a 10 year old. She was anxious to share all about her trip. She was especially fond of a bookmark she got at the SLC visitors center of the Articles of Faith. I asked her if she knew anything about them. She didn't. So we had a really good chat about what they are and why they are important. She was interested in that way that young ones are. I had a book written by President Hinckley about womanhood that I was reading. I noticed she kept looking at the pictures and reading the quotes. I had the strongest yet quietest impression to give her the book. I thought, yeah right. I just got it, I was really liking it, and it had some great quotes I wanted to use on my blog. So I decided that I would wait until the end of the flight and if I was still feeling that 'feeling' I would give her the book.

I totally forgot all about it, until we landed and unbuckled our seat belts to get up. It came to me again so I said to myself, here I go! And I told her I had noticed her admiring my book and would she like to have it? It would be my gift to her to remember her first airplane flight and she could learn more about what God felt about womanhood. Her face lit up and she said she really liked the pictures and some of what she read over my shoulder and she wanted it. Her mother (who was sitting across the aisle from her) was very touched. Sooooo, who knows? I've been trying to be more aware of the promptings I receive and to follow them.

When we stepped off the plane, you could smell the ocean, and feel the humidity. Ahhhh. HOME. Natalie and Robert came to pick us up, and we had a good time visiting with them about their honeymoon trip.

Sad to say: I didn't take ONE picture while we were gone. But I promise some when we go back in a few weeks.

Bethany's Birthday!


Hey Bethans! It's your27th birthday! I soooo remember when you were born! Such a darling little girl to add some leaven to the Duffy brood of boys.
Happy Birthday to You.
Happy Birthday to You,
Happy Birthday Dear Bethany,
Happy Birthday TO YOU!
We love you and the woman you have become. Have a wonderful day!
P.S.--How did Nick do on Peter Pan? hahahahahahaha........ I don't think that will EVER die! Love Ya!

Friday, August 1, 2008

Cabin Company

Today was another day of relaxing. How nice to not have to leave the 'house'.

We did however play host to some pleasant and unexpected company!

First of all, Nicole came up to deliver the lighting for the game room remodel and to check out how it was coming along. We are behind schedule on this. The plan was to have it all done by mid-July. Haha! But all the demo is done and the 'putting the puzzle back together' has started. Pete was here to finish caulking the tongue and groove and has primed everything. The new mouldings look fantastic. The cabinets for the new bathroom, kitchenette, are done and are in 'finish coating' now. They will be delivered in two weeks when the craft hutch for the family room is done so they can deliver them all together. The sliding barn door for the bathroom is done too.

Then the concrete guy can come and make the template for the bathroom counter and sink. We decided to do a concrete one. The sink is built in and is a 'trough'. It is a very rustic look and 'manly' for that area. Duff just thinks we are spiffing it up, which we are, but what he DOESN'T know is that we are making it a total BYU room! (good thing he doesn't read this very often, huh!) A couple walls are going to be navy, the rest neutral tan/goldish, and the mouldings creamy white. The shower in the bathroom has dark blue glass tiles for the trims. I have been collecting some BYU memorabilia to put in it.

I need to find a counted cross stitch pattern for the Y logo and start on that. I did find some BYU fabric and hopefully when school starts I'll get going on a couple of quilts.

Fun note: Nicole and I have been trying to find a dart board set. You would think that would be easy, but I'm looking for one with a BYU outside and a U of U inside! Navy blue darts on a red board. I'm terrible I know, but throwing darts at a U football could be a great stress reliever, don'tcha think! Hahahahaha! I LOVE the color red, and have it many places here, but there is not a smidgen of it in that room anywhere!

Okay--so Nicole was here and Pete the painter was here, and then about 4pmish, there is a knock on the door. Now you have to understand--we don't get random knocks on the door here unless we know someone is coming. Duff answered the door and lo and behold, it was the Hrabiks, Gregsons, and Brewsters from home! They were 'in town' finishing up Aspen Grove and Landon entering the MTC and decided to come by and say hello!

It was a nice surprise and we had a great visit with everyone. Dani and Avery ate watermelon. Sweet Michael wanted to know if I lived here now and how many children I really had because there were so many beds! (some of my primary kiddos) IF ONLY we would have known they were coming we could have bbq'd some burgers and had a party! But they needed to get back to Provo and connect with Lacie. Her birthday is tomorrow and she and Zach just called off their engagement, so family time is important.

Our lovely day is coming to a close. I have some chocolate chippers in the oven and we are going to have a pizzookie and watch the Thomas Crown Affair on tv. Ta-Tah!