We had a great day today.
Really good church meetings to begin with.
We didn't do breakfast in bed this year. With the early block and no little kids anymore, we all valued our sleep.
Everyone was here for dinner.
With kids-in-law now, we do Father's Day either on the Saturday night before or on the Sunday every other year. Last year was our year for Saturday night, so this year we got Sunday.
We had bbq rib eye steaks, baked potatoes,
mushroom gravy, fresh green beans from the garden with garlic and some kosher salt and pepper, corn, salad, and
Chocolate Eclair Cake. This is one of Duff's
favorite desserts, and he asks for it every Father's Day.
Christine and I gave him 2 aprons. He has wanted some for when he grills, and for when he helps cook in the kitchen. He was really excited about them. They now proudly hang on the pantry door hook with mine. (I have always loved a good apron!)
Mike, Adrianne, Josh, and Meredith gave him root beer for the floats that he loves, and one of his all-time favorite candies: chocolate covered raisins. And a pair of topsider tan and blue denim shoes to wear on the boat when they work out there. He loves them.
Adrianne embroidered a hanky with Team Charlie on it looking forward to Eclipse coming out. Duff has read all the books at the girls' request and has seen all the movies with them.
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At church, they handed out peanut butter thumbprint cookies with a chocolate kiss in the middle by the YW, along with ties made by the primary children. Really cute, and really delicious.
Here is the fun poem:
"Daddies are the greatest guys,
They're sweet and fun and tender
But there's one thing they can't resist,
It's common to their gender.
When they come home from work at night
One thing they love is this:
A cookie and a glass of milk,
A big hug and a kiss!
So one this special father's day,
We've made a treat to share.
A cookie with a kiss on top,
And handsome ties to wear!!!"
Our day was sweet and good. After we ate, Duff told us something he had thought about during church about his dad, John Leon. When he was young and had the chicken pox, he was tired of laying in bed, but too sick to really get up and do much. One night after work, his dad came downstairs and brought him the book Treasure Island. Duff didn't want to read it--he thought it was a book for little kids, and promptly told his dad, No. To which his dad told him of his love for reading and that he wanted Don to develop one too. That it would serve him well the rest of his life. He promised he would give it a shot. The story was so fascinating that he finished the book in 2 days and asked for another. His dad just smiled and brought him Tom Sawyer. He devoured it, and it began his journey with reading. His dad loved Reader's Digest and read them each month cover to cover.
So, then he had us go around the table and asked each one of us to tell something about our father's that taught us something or that we were grateful for their example. It didn't have to be anything big or profound, just a little something.
Mike: How much it meant to him to have his dad with him on his very first scout camp. He was fun, cool, and they had a good time together. He saw him really interact with others and how he treated and helped the kids and other adults.
Adrianne: How her dad taught her about a love for the earth. He taught her how to scuba dive and she was always his diving buddy. She doesn't feel safe if he's not with her when she dives.
Josh: When we went to get all the things he needed for his mission and saw the bill. The cost didn't matter because it was for the Lord, and Duff just handed the clerk the credit card. He really felt like his dad believed in him that this young kid would go out and do his best. And he still feels that now, that no matter what he chooses to do, his dad believes in him.
Meredith: How important family is. He loves to vacation with his family. Get away and go make some memories.
Me: I grew up poor, but didn't really realize it. I didn't know any different at the time. My dad taught me to work hard. He always worked hard. He was not an educated man--by the world's standards--but he worked hard and wasn't afraid to try something new. He sometimes worked two and three jobs to keep my mom at home and make ends meet. He'd go to his main job, then home to change clothes, eat, and then go to the corner gas station to pump gas, change oil and work on cars until closing. We were usually in bed by the time he got home. I remember hanging on his legs at the front door and crying, 'please don't go daddy!', and he would peel us off of him and leave because he had to. Now, as a parent myself, I realize how hard that must have been. Then on Saturdays he landscaped houses. We used to like to go by the finished ones and see how nice they turned out. He loved photography and fishing and had some really good quality equipment that he got when he was stationed in Japan during the Korean War. I remember he and my mom having quiet discussions in the bedroom and then seeing him leave the house with his hobby items to go pawn them. He never did buy them back.
Christine: One time I was out of town, and she needed help and her dad asked if she would like a blessing. She did. She was comforted and figured out what to do. She knows she can always go to him and is grateful he holds the priesthood.
We missed Shaun and Natalie and Robert and John Owen!
Love you guys--